I don’t allow anons because of previous jerkitude but if you want a question to be kept between us instead of published, just say “(private)” at the beginning of the message and I’ll respect your wishes no matter what the content is. PLEASE don’t think this means you can’t give me constructive criticism or disagree with me; i encourage that but i’d also like to know who I’m talking to (people tend to be much meaner and less honest while on anon so this seems like a good way to help our conversation be more productive)